Acceptable Use Policy
Last updated: November 9, 2026
This Acceptable Use Policy applies to every client of Automated Dating, a service of Peter Trai LLC, and to every visitor of automated.dating. It is part of our Terms of Service. Automated Dating exists for one purpose: helping adults build genuine, lawful romantic connections. With your explicit authorization, our trained team manages your own dating-app profiles, arranges introductions, and schedules real-world dates on your behalf. That work depends on trust, honesty, and safety, and this policy protects all three.
Zero tolerance for trafficking and exploitation
We maintain an express, zero-tolerance prohibition of human trafficking in any form, including sex trafficking and sexual exploitation. We equally prohibit aiding, abetting, or encouraging abuse of any kind, whether directed at a match, a member of our team, or anyone else. There are no exceptions to this section, no warnings, and no second chances. Any indication of this conduct results in immediate termination and a report to the appropriate authorities.
Prohibited conduct
You may not use Automated Dating, our website, or any part of our service to engage in, attempt, or facilitate any of the following:
- Any involvement of a person under 18. Every client must be 18 or older, and the service may only be used to connect with adults on adult dating platforms. Child sexual exploitation or abuse of any kind, in any form, results in immediate termination and a report to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and law enforcement.
- Commercial sex, escorting, prostitution, or solicitation of any kind.
- Sexually explicit profile content. We do not create, upload, or manage sexually explicit photos or profile material, and profiles we manage must not contain it.
- Sexual violence, or the pursuit of any non-consensual contact or activity.
- Sexual encounters or sexually-driven interactions of any kind, whether consensual or not, and non-consensual intimate imagery (NCII, "revenge porn"). See Sexual conduct and intimate imagery below.
- Harassment, stalking, threats, hate, or abusive conduct toward matches, our staff, or anyone else, on any platform or in person.
- Fraud, identity deception, or misrepresentation. Our team represents the real client only, with that client's authorization, on that client's own accounts. Our optional AI-enhanced photos are generated from your own photos and must represent your real likeness. We will not impersonate anyone, invent a persona, or help you misrepresent who you are.
- Illegal activity of any kind under the laws of any applicable jurisdiction.
- Any attempt to use the service for a purpose other than genuine romantic connection, including scams, commercial schemes, data harvesting, or gaining access to another person for any improper purpose.
Sexual conduct and intimate imagery
No sexual encounters, consensual or otherwise. Automated Dating exists solely to arrange genuine romantic dates between adults. You may not use our service, our website, or our team to arrange, solicit, or pursue sexual encounters or sexually-driven interactions of any kind, even where every person involved consents. This includes hookups, casual sex, sexting, exchanging sexual content, escorting, "sugar" or other transactional arrangements, and any other activity whose purpose is sexual rather than romantic. Our team will not send any message or take any action on your behalf directed at such a purpose, and doing so yourself through accounts we manage is a violation of this policy.
No non-consensual intimate imagery (NCII) or "revenge porn." You may not create, request, obtain, store, share, publish, threaten to share, or otherwise use any intimate or sexual image or video of a person without that person's express consent. This applies to real, altered, and AI-generated imagery alike, and to every person, including a match, a former partner, or a member of our team. We treat any such conduct as a zero-tolerance violation: we immediately remove any such material from anything we control, terminate the client's engagement without refund, and report the conduct to, and cooperate fully with, law enforcement.
Enforcement
We actively enforce this policy. If we believe, in our reasonable judgment, that you have violated it or intend to, we may take any or all of the following actions:
- Refuse service, or suspend or terminate your engagement immediately and without refund. Payments are final under our refund policy, and a termination for a violation of this policy does not create a refund right.
- Report the conduct to law enforcement or other appropriate authorities.
- Cooperate fully with law enforcement investigations, as described on our law enforcement page.
Because our team operates your accounts with your authorization, we may also decline to send any message or take any action on your behalf that we believe violates this policy, the rules of the dating platform involved, or the law, even where your engagement otherwise continues.
Reporting abuse
If you experience or witness conduct that violates this policy, whether by a client, a match, or anyone connected to our service, please tell us. Reports are reviewed personally and treated seriously.
- Email: peter@automated.dating
- Text: (646) 832-9166
We respond within 1 to 2 business days, and urgent safety reports are prioritized. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services first. You can also reach us through our contact page.
Related policies
This policy works together with our Terms of Service, Privacy Policy, and Refund Policy. For questions about engagements and pricing, see pricing or book a consultation call.